Relationships: Son-mother
Could Mum have lived longer?

"His mother was supposed to go for surgery on that day, but the hospital phoned up to postpone it.  She died on that day. She had already waited 3 months for the surgery.   Michael was so angry. The press (in Holland) published his comments about the health care system. A 77-year old person would have less priority than a 50-year old and his mum was 77 years old"

"Do you have private surgeons and hospitals in Holland?".  No, said Michael's wife.

"Couldn't she be operated in Singapore?".  Michael was diagnosed  with kidney tumour in Gleneagles Hospital in Singapore and was operated within 10 days.   Her mum flew here to see him.  She's a tall elegant English lady, soft-spoken and was anxious to go back to Holland after a short stay.  She was diagnosed as having aortic aneurysm after she was home.

"Don't you know aortic aneurysm is a dangerous condition and should be given priority for surgery?"

Yes, Michael's wife nodded.  They had known from the internet. 

It was just 10 months ago and now she's gone.  The sadness is that Michael can afford to get her the best private surgeon in the world.  But Mum has faith in the Dutch welfare system where everybody must wait their turn for surgery.  It is hard to believe that rich people have to wait their turns.

Michael would have died in this system as his kidney growth was just encroaching on the major renal artery.  Once it grows into the artery, he would have had died, said his surgeon.

It was fortunate that he came to Singapore  to set up an office.  A fever led to discovery of the kidney tumour.  His mum may have lived longer than the 77 years but nobody knows.  Money cannot buy everything, but it surely can get Mum the best surgeon in the developed world.
  
Aortic aneurysm - A sac formed by local enlargement of the wall of the aortic artery, caused by disease or injury.   The aortic artery is a major blood vessel and rupture of the sac will mean instant death.

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